About Choose Again USA

One man found a way out, and wrote down how

Diederik Wolsak spent five decades carrying something he could not put down. What he found in the end was not a philosophy — it was a sequence of six steps that could be repeated, taught, and used by anyone.

Choose Again USA, Inc. is the American non-profit that carries that work forward.

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What would you like to know?

Diederik's Story

Born on Java in 1942, three years in Japanese camps, decades of addiction and depression — and what he found at fifty.

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The Method

The Six Steps to Freedom, explained plainly — and why insight alone has never been enough to change anything.

How it works

Mission & Non-Profit

Why one week is offered at three prices, what our 501(c)(3) status changes, and the commitments we hold ourselves to.

What we stand for

Transformation Stories

Accounts from people who had already tried a great deal — teachers, physicians, attorneys, parents.

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Common Questions

Is it therapy? What does it cost? What if I am in crisis? Straight answers, including to the awkward ones.

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For Professionals

For therapists, coaches, clergy and HR teams — what this is, who it suits, and how to refer without handing anyone off.

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Diederik Wolsak, founder of Choose Again

Founder

Diederik Wolsak

RPC MPCP

Diederik is the founder and program director of the Choose Again Attitudinal Healing Centre, and the creator of the Six Steps to Freedom. He is a relationship counsellor, international workshop leader and public speaker.

He still leads the monthly Open Circle himself, still sits with people one-on-one, and still writes a reflection every morning. Ask him how far he has come and he will tell you he is a work in progress.

"Direct and eloquent… a practical six-step program to self-liberation."
Gabor Maté, MD

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Not only him

The facilitators who carry the work now

Choose Again facilitators have done this work on themselves — often arriving as participants first, carrying something of their own. That is not a credential you can study for, and it is the reason nobody in the room will flinch at whatever you bring.

Diederik trained them deliberately. A method that only one man can deliver is not a method — it is a personality, and personalities do not outlive the person.

Where the work happens

Online, one-to-one, and in two places on earth

Open Circle

Monthly, online, pay what you can. Beginners are the point.

Dates & Events

Counseling

Private, at your pace, on your own material.

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El Cielo, Costa Rica

Year-round above Lake Arenal. Never more than twelve people.

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South of France

One cohort each September, and it usually fills early.

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The organization

Two organizations, one method

Choose Again USA, Inc. is a registered 501(c)(3) non-profit and the American sister organization to Choose Again, founded by Diederik Wolsak. Same method, same founder, same facilitators.

If you are in the United States, this is the right place to start.

(888) 864-4133
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Reading about it and doing it are different

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Choose Again USA, Inc. is a registered 501(c)(3) non-profit and the American sister organization to Choose Again, founded by Diederik Wolsak.

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